Having read and collected hundreds of comics in my teens (back when they had very few ads and a lot more pages, a lot more plot!) I wondered about this. Did I just ignore the women being misused and abused? No. I think I recognized plot devices even then. I remember laughing about Spiderman's Aunt May who must have had superhuman strength to endure the multitudes of heart attacks that were thrown in whenever the plot grew stale.
The art has become truly more graphic now, and the sex and the brutality more raw; but is it any different from what people would get from tv or the net? I don't know. All women in comics seem to have very little in the way of clothes and extremely inflated breasts filled with helium. Must be written into the female super hero contract. Is it a put down of women? No, the men are covered with more muscles than can ever be achieved by the gym. They are the iconic male, female figures. Never ugly unless evil, never less than perfect in muscle and curves.
The difficulties must come from the mind or outside of the body.
Does it matter? Yes, the view that women are prey is hard wired into our society and the sooner we recognize it and begin to root it out the better. Can we get rid of it all? No.
But in the end, I think the writing will always be the make or break of the comic. If it is well-written, the reader will put up with much. If it is poorly written, the reader will go elsewhere, even if the art work is stunning.
Update: Slightly OT, but via
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