I have always resisted making a day totally special where the significant other has to perform to satisfaction. Loving gestures by both parties should happen all year around. It is fake and unrealistic otherwise.
I am confounded by the women who put huge expectations for Valentine's Day or their anniversary/birthday etc. on the shoulders of their significant other. They drop 'hints' all about but then are heartbroken if the poor sap forgets, or doesn't deliver at the expected level. Kinda like having a pop quiz throw at you....How about just telling the mate what you would like and helping to make it happen?
Sorry, Terry! Luckily, I am indifferent to it. It is just one more silly holiday to distract elementary school kids and allow shiny new decorations in stores...
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Hehe.
That's about right.
Aww, sorry Pez. Bad experience?
I have always resisted making a day totally special where the significant other has to perform to satisfaction. Loving gestures by both parties should happen all year around. It is fake and unrealistic otherwise.
I am confounded by the women who put huge expectations for Valentine's Day or their anniversary/birthday etc. on the shoulders of their significant other. They drop 'hints' all about but then are heartbroken if the poor sap forgets, or doesn't deliver at the expected level. Kinda like having a pop quiz throw at you....How about just telling the mate what you would like and helping to make it happen?
I HATE Valentine's Day!
Sorry, Terry! Luckily, I am indifferent to it. It is just one more silly holiday to distract elementary school kids and allow shiny new decorations in stores...
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